I have always given a lot of independence and space in my relationship and expect the same in return. Be it any relationship…not necessarily love…even friendship.I have never been in love. All my knowledge about love is what i have learnt from other's experiences only. I am the kind of person who would never ask any questions and don’t like being asked any either when i am in any relationships....
So when a Blogger friend told me that she doesn’t like me giving hugs similar to the pokes to other Bloggers and I should only reserve them for her I was kind of taken aback. I mean ok, if you like someone you expect that person to like you back but you can’t expect that person to not like and care about someone else. And over here I am just talking about friendship…wonder what she would be like in Love…I pity the guy she would end up with.
They say Love is Selfless then how come most of us are Selfish in it?? Why do we get jealous of him/her talking to someone else? I know a lot of guys who don’t like their girls talking to any other guy and vice-versa. Frankly I think these kinda people don’t deserve to be in a relationship. Well how can you expect someone to Love you if you don’t trust them and get all jittery even when they talk to someone else. Isn’t a relationship all about trust??
Well but then there is a flip side to it too … my good close friend's ex used to complain that she never get jealous and he is not possessive about her at all…maybe that’s one of the reasons she’s my ex now :P :P
So how much is too much??
lol..:)..hmm..aamirrrrr,....you have a way to write da :)
ReplyDelete